More than real errors, these are those character traits, typical of a Sign, which risk compromising a meeting with a high erotic rate. Here’s how to recognize them and neutralize them
Do you know those cases in which you feel so conquered by someone that you never have enough? Where your dominant thought is to get intimacy with that person as soon as possible? Here, however, know that the real “erotic spark” hardly clicks into the bedroom.
It is a fact that sexual compatibility can be very distant from the intellectual compatibility that can be had with a person during a conversation.
Fortunately, if you have good communication skills, you can tune in to that someone even under the sheets. Above all, if a certain capacity for introspection has allowed us to know our tastes and intuit the aspirations and fantasies of those in front of us.
Although your zodiac sign does not represent in all respects the person you are, it can nevertheless help to identify certain traits of the character, and provide “clues” about desires and needs. This works especially in terms of sex, when certain cravings are deeper and it is not easy to bring them to light. Sign for Sign, find out what the Zodiac reveals about your way of experiencing sexuality. With related errors and some advice to better experience eros.
ARIES, THE HASTY
The first sign in the zodiac is known for its fervor in all aspects of life, including sex. Passion and ardor are at the forefront of the erotic experiences of this “ram”, but the desire for a deeper intimacy is scarce in him. With an Aries it will be much easier to have a “quickie” rather than long and articulated embraces, although this does not mean that it is an unpleasant experience (indeed!).
The advice If you are an Aries, focus more on foreplay: sex is not always a competition or a race for those who arrive first at the finish line, and just because you have a lot of energy does not mean that you have to use it all, before even the partner come out completely satisfied.
TAURUS, THE LAZER
Earth sign, Taurus is very attached to earthly pleasures. Having said that, it is important to note that the Taurus natives are not exactly among the first to take the initiative and, although they are genuinely interested, it may be necessary to guide them towards what they want before they exclude it from their erotic scene! As for their style, don’t expect interest in fast sex, but rather for intense and long sessions that can last for hours.
The advice Lovers of luxury and seduction as you are, let yourself be seduced by well-kept lingerie or imaginative sex toys, as well as eye contact, sensuality and all those daring attitudes that reproduce certain scenes from hard films.
TWINS, THE BUBBLE
They are governed by Mercury, the planet of communication and expression in relationships. It is a misconception that all Gemini have two faces, but there is some truth to the fact that commitment is not always their strong point, as they tend to change their mind easily. This does not necessarily mean that they cannot engage with a person, only that that person must be one with their playful spirit and ready to always maintain a certain “freshness” in the relationship (even if this may mean changing position several times per session !).
Advice Since you love playing a part, anticipate the intimate experience by accentuating it with both linguistic and physical theatricality and let yourself be attracted by a dirty talk, also characterized by a communication that is not necessarily “verbal”.
CANCER, THE EXCESSIVE
Sweet and sensitive, the leitmotif of Cancer is closeness, both physical and emotional. Natives are known for being generous and attentive, which is great under the sheets, but it also means that sometimes they can get so lost in wanting to show how much they can give pleasure that they forget to really enjoy themselves. Loyalty is another very important element for a Cancer, so they may turn out to be a little reserved until they get to know the potential partner better.
The advice If you strive to give greater confidence it will be easier to open up and show your authentic face.
LEONE, THE EGOCENTRIC
The performing Leo needs to be desired. Just show a native a bit of attention and he will suddenly be ready to go. Since they are at risk of being a little selfish in bed, giving them confirmation that they are satisfying your desires will encourage them to do everything possible to maximize your satisfaction.
The advice Don’t let yourself be attracted by group sex: you can easily discover that only within a monogamous relationship can you feel truly “unique” and at the center of attention.
VIRGIN, THE MANIACAL
To guide the natives of the Sign are habit and perfection. This risks transforming the bedroom into a sort of military barracks where the criticism of the way things are done if they are not done exactly as you wish is easily triggered!
The advice In a long-term relationship, take advantage of this underlying obsessiveness to work hard and perfect your erotic performance, in order to give your partner maximum satisfaction.
LIBRA, THE DEMANDING
Just like the natives of Cancer, Libra likes to “give”. Thanks to your innate idea of justice, however, you also love to receive. This means that if you are willing to satisfy the partner, you expect the same enthusiasm from the partner. That, however, will find a bored Libra alongside if the commitment and the understanding are not reciprocal.
The advice Giving to receive the same treatment in return is not always a negative feature: propose a 69!
SCORPION, THE INSTABLE
With you natives, sex is explosive, a bit like getting on a roller coaster and indulging in a riot of experiences and emotions for the duration of the intercourse! However, as a water sign, you Scorpions also crave intimacy. Despite your prowess and your obsession with “performance”, in the end it won’t be difficult to glimpse a little tenderness under the facade.
The tip To amaze – and if necessary lower the tones – leverage the eccentricity.
SAGITTARIUS, THE MEGALOMAN
The sex with you of Sagittarius is all based on fun and exploration, since you tend to have a strong sexual charge and experience eroticism with the same fighting attitude and ready for anything with which you face life. However, sometimes eros risks being a little too wild and – as governed by Jupiter (the planet of expansion) – your sexual desires can be expressed a little too “big”.
The advice Between an embrace and the other, do not forget to take regenerating breaks.
CAPRICORNO, the ANTI-ROMANTIC
Romanticism is not really your forte! Sometimes it may even seem that the game of seduction makes you uncomfortable and that during the act you are too detached. Despite this, you are very good in bed because you are extremely focused on results. It will be better to take advantage of it by praising you when you are doing your duty well and making sure that you are activated when you are not doing it!
The advice The ideal way to break your slightly rigorous and formal attitude? Offer a role-playing game!
AQUARIUS, THE BRAIN
Among all the Signs of the Zodiac you are the one who is most difficult to find in intimacy with someone. It also happens because you natives of Aquarius are not always easy to understand. In order for a relationship to work and push you towards something more intimate, you must first “read” the person in front of you, analyze their sexual experience and understand what makes them excited.
The advice Being a sign that loves to experiment – guided as you are by Uranus, governor of technology – consider introducing new sex toys to watch the passion come on!
FISH, THE HYPERSENSITIVE
Pisces and Cancer are both highly sensitive signs, but you Pisces are more likely to be sad. You tend to worry about being inadequate, and as a consequence you risk going too far in emotional reactions. Although you agree to experiment, if guided, eros for you is the result of a fusion of minds, bodies and souls. This strong intensity is excellent for some, but for others it risks being a little too much.
The advice The risks are canceled if you are careful to choose sensitive partners like you and above all able to understand your moods.